The Colombian women are also extremely feminine, romantic, faithful, home loving, traditional and educated having high morals and family values, many Colombian women that you will find available for marriage are professionals with collage degrees. Most of the Colombian women are very kind hearted and very sincere! When you find compatibility with a women from Colombia you will be richly rewarded should you decide to marry.
Most Colombian women are simply looking for a husband that will treat them with respect and as an equal partner and that will also be faithful. The male to female ratio in Colombia is about one male to five females. This is why many Colombian women are in their thirties and have never married and are without children!
The Colombian women are much different than what you may be accustomed to. Unlike some American women that are more concerned with dating your checkbook and credit cards, the Colombian women are truly interested in you!
Many Colombian women prefer an older man 10-12 years older than themselves; (see our advice, opinion, and reasons to stay within that age range below) they consider age to be a sign of maturity and stability. They are more interested in you as a person than they are your age and appearance! They seek the more important qualities such as honesty, stability, and sincerity. Give them that and you will be richly rewarded!!
There is an over abundance of these high quality Colombian women in Bogotá. Most of the Colombian women are of the Catholic faith, but are willing to except a good man of another faith. You will find these ladies VERY TRADITIONAL,
After you decide on the lady that is your ideal Latin life mate, you will be invited to her home to meet here family and friends. Your Colombian woman will be very proud of her future life mate!
Colombian women even as adults have and show much respect for there families. It is still a Colombian custom to ask the father for his daughters hand in marriage. When asking you should explain to her family that you are not taking their daughter away from her family, you are simply combining two families together. Make them feel as welcome into your family as they will make you welcome into there family.
ABOVE ALL!! Be honest and be yourself, there is no need to be someone you are not simply to impress your future wife, she will not be treating you in this manner!! This will eliminate surprises later on and possible problems.
With all that being said, now I will tell you about some of the downfalls that apply to meeting & dating ANY women from a foreign country, including Colombia.
The biggest percentage of your online meetings and in person meetings will be successful if you pay attention to warnings and danger signs. About the age difference: "We tell you that many Colombian women prefer an older man 10-12 years older than themselves", We say this because historically this has been the age difference for a successful marriage, if you are really compatible in likes and dislikes, it can be stretched some what.
To find an example of this, go to any mall, movie theater etc, look around at the men the women are with, are they with someone old enough to be there father or grandfather? Probably not. here in Colombia it can be seen from time to time just like in the U.S., Canada, the U.K. and Europe, but in a lot of cases it's just some old geezer trying to impress some young hottie by buying her nice things and taking her to nice restaurants she could never afford. Many agencies, middlemen, and address sellers will give you hype and impression that meeting a Colombian women 30 - 35 years younger for marriage is the norm, it's possible, but the chances of keeping her and not getting scammed is slim, VERY slim. Sometimes the women you meet online will place on their profile that they will except a man "any age", the first thing to ask is why, is she that desperate to leave her country? Some things to be aware of:
● Women online and in marriage agencies working several guys for money.
● Women asking for money before you even meet them in person, either directly, or giving
you a sob story about how rough her life is, knowing you might not be able to resist helping
a sweet young thing in distress. (it should make you wonder how they survived before you
came along)
The best way to protect yourself from the above is a no brainer, but few will listen. DO NOT SEND MONEY TO SOMEONE YOU HAVE NEVER MET!
Even after meeting a Colombian women in person, except for small gifts, it best not to throw your money at her until there is some kind of commitment, even then you do not want to be a cash cow for her and her family.
If you have been communicating with a Colombian women you met on line or purchased her address some where, and you are planning to visit her, bringing a few small gifts is OK. (as long as it's not a $5000.00 dollar engagement ring)
One page is hardly enough to explain about Colombian women, their culture and their ways, if you have any question just send us an e-mail, we will try our best to answer your question.
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